My number 1 goal as a christian is to do what God wants me to do. God definantly has a plan for each of us but he also has instructions for women and men specifically. One great book in the bible is Titus and specifically for women Titus 2.
Here is a audio bible study on it that is great for me. Sometimes I listen to it every day! It covers so much for older women and younger women and what Gods says for us. It encourages me and reminds my of what my job is.